The Dangerous Lie of Just Forgive Why Instant Absolution Can Destroy You
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The Dangerous Lie of Just Forgive Why Instant Absolution Can Destroy You
“Just forgive them.” How many times have you heard that? How many times have you been told to simply 'let it go,' 'move on,' or 'be the bigger person' when someone has deeply hurt you? It’s a mantra whispered in therapy sessions, preached from pulpits, and shared by well-meaning friends. It sounds so simple, so wise, so... healing. But what if I told you that 'just forgive' is, in many cases, the most dangerous advice you'll ever receive? I've seen it, lived it, and watched countless others stumble into its trap. This seemingly benevolent counsel often isn't about liberation; it's about bypass, denial, and a subtle form of self-betrayal that can leave you more wounded than before. The All-Too-Common Mantra (and Its Hidden Dangers) We live in a culture obsessed with quick fixes, and emotional pain is no exception. Forgiveness has been packaged as a magic pill – a one-size-fits-all solution to every grievance. The idea is that by forgiving, you…
